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3 Prayers for marriage restoration

Prayer can be significant in marriage restoration as it can help a couple build strength and give guidance from God during a very emotional time in life. In this article, I will provide 3 prayers for marriage restoration. As Christians, we need prayer in our lives.

It shows our faith and helps improve our relationship with God and others. It also allows God to move in our lives. When it comes to prayer in the hope of restoring our marriage, we can put our faith in Jesus and ask for the strength and perseverance to make it through.

Prayers in the book of Psalms about restoration

Psalm 126:1-6 is an excellent example of God’s restoring healing power, written when the Jewish exiles returned from captivity. 

“When the Lord brought back his exiles to Jerusalem, it was like a dream! We were filled with laughter, and we sang for joy. And the other nations said, “What amazing things the Lord has done for them.” Yes, the Lord has done amazing things for us! What joy! Restore our fortunes, Lord, as streams renew the desert. Those who plant in tears will harvest with shouts of joy. They weep as they go to plant their seed, and they sing as they return with the harvest. 

This can be our story too. Our tears can turn to shouts of joy. We may weep for a time, but there is a time of harvest. God can restore, and we can trust Him for restoration, and when that harvest comes, we can sing in praise to the Lord. 

Here are a few reasons why prayer is important:

1) Connection with God-

  • Prayer can help build our relationship with God and help us see his healing power in our lives. It can improve your faith and can bring a softness to your marriage.  

2) Humility-

  • Prayer builds humility. It helps us to see our faults and areas in our life that we may be blind to that need work, which then can bring restoration to our marriage. We can admit that we need help. There is a tenderness to seeing your spouse humble themselves in front of you and the Lord.

3) Forgiveness-

  • Prayer can help us to forgive, even when it is hard. It also brings us to ask for forgiveness of our sins and helps restore our marriage, let go of anger and move forward. 

4) Unity-

  • Prayer brings unity to a marriage. When you can take time to pray together, it builds a connection with each other and God. 

5) Hope-

  • Prayer gives us hope for a better future. And the knowledge that God has good things in store for us, loves us and will care for us. Trust in God’s plan for your marriage. 
Don't give up sign on your marriage. You can find restoration

What is restoration?

Restoration is taking something old and dried up and putting life back into it, making it new and whole, full of joy and hope. 

The Lord hears you and pays attention to your prayers. Here are 3 prayers for marriage restoration that include a prayer for healing, a prayer for reconciliation, and a prayer for renewal.

Prayer for Healing 

Lord Jesus,

First and foremost, we want to thank you God, for all you do for us. For the big and small blessings in our lives. The ones we see daily and the ones we are often blind to. Open our eyes to those blessings, Jesus. You are a faithful God. We know you are working in our lives. You are a good and loving God. We submit our marriage to you and ask that if it is your will, you will restore us, God.

Help us turn to you, recognize we need you, and that only you can heal our marriage. It is in your mighty power that we see broken marriages heal. There has been much hurt and betrayal that has occurred in our marriage. Hearts have been broken, and much damage has been done. Please help us to acknowledge the pain and hurt and to work together to address these issues.

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We seek forgiveness of our sins in your holy name. We believe that you, Lord Jesus are close to the broken hearted and that you alone can save those who are crushed in spirit. We bring our hopeful prayers to you and ask that we can rebuild trust in this broken marriage. We ask for genuine forgiveness in this marriage. Please come into our hearts. We pray for patience, commitment, the ability to communicate effectively, and for help working through difficult emotions. You take our sin and shame away. Thank you, heavenly father. We love you.

Please help us remember everything you have done in our lives. And know that you can perform wonders once again. We seek you for the strength we need today and pray for healing and restoration for now and tomorrow. We know that you hate divorce. If it is your will, we pray to stand firm in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Bring healing to us both. We ask all this in Jesus name. Amen.

-The importance of healing for marriage restoration

For our marriages to be restored, we must first find healing. It is crucial for moving forward. When trauma occurs in relationships, there are many hurts and emotional wounds. Recovery will not happen overnight, but the hope is that, little by little, healing WILL occur. Our hearts will be renewed, and anger and bitterness will be left behind, and you will be standing with a much stronger marriage.

Prayer for reconciliation

Dear Lord,

We pray for our marriage, Lord. We ask for divine intervention. Restoring relationships is difficult; we know you alone can heal our marriage. Please help us to address past hurts and work towards healing and forgiveness. Our goal is to move forward in a positive, healthy way. We ask that you give us a renewed sense of trust and communication with one another. We have had a troubled marriage for some time, and our true heart’s desire is to save our marriage.

Thank you for forgiving our sins. We are also called to forgive others, Lord Jesus. Please help us to forgive our spouse. Soften our hearts and give us the willingness to work hard to reconcile with our spouse. Help us to see their heart. Jesus, we desire our marriage, and we pray today for reconciliation. We don’t want this to be the end of our marriage. We hope to forgive and have it be stronger than before. If our marriage is not good to stay in and it is not in your will to restore us, will you please give us the courage to walk away?

However, God, if it is worth saving, will you give us strength and equip us to stay and fight? Please help us give each other grace, even when it is difficult. So please, God, help us practice love and have compassion and kindness for one another. Lead us to bible verses that will fill us with hope. Help us pray powerful prayers. It is in Jesus name that we ask all these things. Amen.

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Forgiving your spouse

-Importance of reconciliation for marriage restoration

Reconciliation is a slow process and doesn’t happen overnight. It is day to day that you choose to forgive and practice kindness and humility in your marriage. Reconciliation can lead to a happy and healthy marriage once again. And with prayer and God’s help, we can repair the damage that has occurred and resolve conflicts. Married life isn’t easy, and it’s a lifelong commitment. We need reconciliation to make our marriage new and bring life again.

Prayer for renewal

Dear Jesus,

Please, God, restore and renew our marriage. We ask for new life. A new heartbeat in our souls—fresh breath in our lungs. We have been dead for some time. You say to everything there is a season. As stated in Ecclesiastes 3:1-5

A Time for Everything

 There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:
 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
 a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,

We pray it is our time to heal, build, laugh, and dance. We pray to embrace each other once again with loving arms. Dear God, all our hopes are in you. We pray these 3 marriage restoration prayers in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

Please help us to forgive and not dwell on the past. Help us love each other again and show us ways to reignite our passion for our spouse. You say the old is gone, and the new is here. We are ready, Lord.

Please help us to believe and walk in your truth. Please help us to learn from our past mistakes. We desire to renew our commitment to one another. Thank you, God, for all your blessings and for giving us hope for a better and brighter future. Will you help us create a fresh start and renewed intimacy? We ask all this in Jesus name. Amen.

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-The importance of renewal for marriage restoration

Renewal is an essential aspect of marriage restoration. It can happen after healing and reconciliation have taken place. We can work towards putting the past behind us and pressing forward to a joyful marriage. Renewal is possible after a long period of difficulty and suffering. Therefore, it is possible to have a brand new marriage. 

Conclusion:

The 3 prayers for marriage restoration above are important to help build your connection to God, create unity in your marriage, find humility and forgiveness, and hope for your future. Also, to find healing, reconciliation, and renewal in your marriage.

I am praying for you, my friends in Christ. My husband had an affair, and prayer was essential to our recovery. Five years later and our marriage is restored. So don’t give up hope. And please know it is possible, and God can do amazing things if you let Him. 

  • It is also essential to know that prayer alone may not be the only answer to restore your marriage. It is important to seek Christian counsel. It can help you to communicate further and work towards a long and lasting marriage. A wise counselor can help guide you and also pray for and with you. 
  • Prayer is a powerful tool in the healing process. And it’s free. Use it as a healing place for you and your marriage. 
  • Pray these 3 prayers for marriage restoration on a regular basis and allow God to enter your heart

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