A big question after discovering my husband’s affair was, “How do you cheat on someone that you love”? How do you cheat on them, lie continuously and deceive them, hurt them, break your vows, and even look them in the eyes while doing it? In this post, I will review several reasons how people can…
I was betrayed not only by my husband but also by my friend. To have to work through two betrayals is the hardest thing I have ever been through. You sat with me on my couch while lusting after my husband. When I left for work, you came over. You even slept in my bed…
Last Sunday at church, my pastor was discussing the topic of unforgiveness and the dangers of how it affects us spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Of course, my first thought went right to forgiving infidelity. Unforgiveness is a cancer. It eats away at us day by day. We think we are benefiting ourselves by not forgiving…
It takes a long time to forgive. This blog post will cover 3 of the best books on forgiveness after infidelity. Forgiveness is one of the most challenging emotions to deal with, navigate, and process. I had to purposely go out of my way in search of this whole idea of letting go of all…
Infidelity is a topic that has troubled relationships for centuries, leaving deep scars and shattered trust in its aftermath. When a partner cheats, it can be devastating, and the question of whether a cheater can truly change often arises. Can someone who has betrayed their partner’s trust transform and become a better person? In this…
Finding out your spouse has cheated can be one of the most devasting things that will ever happen in your life. It leads to intense emotional breakdown and a tremendous amount of distrust in a marriage. It takes time to heal from such a traumatic experience. However, forgiveness is a powerful tool in the healing…